Hello guyz, here i came up wid d another post.. it's been after a long tym...!!
so i dun need to specify the topic speciaaly... the title says it all what is it about...dun be wonder...i waz juzz thinking about it sm dayz bk...so juzz thot of pen down all d thots..!!
ppl says expectations hurt a lot so nvr expect... but is it rele possible..??.. atleast i cudn't avoid expecting d things afta tryin so hard..!! everytime i decided not to expect..got succeeded first..widout expectations i felt sm incidents as sweet surprises.. but later on again Istarted expecting more n more... my expectations from those buddies n others increased..!!
Whenever our expectations don't get fullfilled, we adjust wid d situation..saying it... "It's fine" or "It's ok"..!!
but kuthetarii manat chuk-chuktech..manaat kuthetarii tochtech..!! ryt...?? Whn ppl say "I have never kept any expectations so no probs of getting hurt..!!" but i think these are d reactions of getting hurt due to unsatisfied expectations in d past....ryt.?? wht u say guyz..??
so what i want 2 say guyz, expecting the things is d habbit of human being..!! now these r mah views depending upon mah experiences...n m sure everyone will have different views.. so guyz be specific n be clear...and give ur views on dis one..!!
Another topic i wuld lyk 2 raise is smthng diff...
juzz few days bak i posted mah staus on fb as "Afta doin so many things fr others, they value it afta u stop doin it..!! and some dn value it even after u stop doin it..!!"
i rcvd lotsa comments n suggestions on dis..sm ppl said ki fal ki asha mat karo n all...mahabharat ke dialogues n i diagree wid it completely...!!
temme whoever says dis, 'doesn't expect nything whtvr they do..??'.. is it so..???
we expect the fruits from all our dids like whn u study u always expect good marks...whn u give surprises to ur frnds u always expect that they wuld love it.. n vil thank u for tat..!!
Even at the time of planting tree also, we expect that it shud give us the oxygen n fruits as it grows up..??? ryt..???
do u ever plant a tree purposely whis is of no use..???
n nw temme whn othrs neither give value nor acknowledge fr the things u r doing..do u rele stop doin it..??
n whn u stop doin it... n ppl start missing it...do u again start wid d same stuff again..?? or do u follow d proverb.."JASHAS TASE..??"
obviously we expect the things from our closed once only...so when they dint satisfy r expectations, we get hurt easily...!! ryt..???
I knw mah thots r bit confusing.. sm ppl willfeel it a lot more confusing n wiered...but these status msg ka topic n expectations ka topic were so much interrelated wid each other...!!
those all were mah thots..but i'll need ur views guyz...so go ahead, pen down ur views on these 2 topics.. n give comments...
so..bye bye till d next post...!!
cya tc...!!
