EXPECTATIONS

Hello guyz, here i came up wid d another post.. it's been after a long tym...!!
so i dun need to specify the topic speciaaly... the title says it all what is it about...dun be wonder...i waz juzz thinking about it sm dayz bk...so juzz thot of pen down all d thots..!!

ppl says expectations hurt a lot so nvr expect... but is it rele possible..??.. atleast i cudn't avoid expecting d things afta tryin so hard..!! everytime i decided not to expect..got succeeded first..widout expectations i felt sm incidents as sweet surprises.. but later on again Istarted expecting more n more... my expectations from those buddies n others increased..!!

Whenever our expectations don't get fullfilled, we adjust wid d situation..saying it... "It's fine" or "It's ok"..!!
but kuthetarii manat chuk-chuktech..manaat kuthetarii tochtech..!! ryt...?? Whn ppl say "I have never kept any expectations so no probs of getting hurt..!!" but i think these are d reactions of getting hurt due to unsatisfied expectations in d past....ryt.?? wht u say guyz..??

so what i want 2 say guyz, expecting the things is d habbit of human being..!! now these r mah views depending upon mah experiences...n m sure everyone will have different views.. so guyz be specific n be clear...and give ur views on dis one..!!

Another topic i wuld lyk 2 raise is smthng diff...
juzz few days bak i posted mah staus on fb as "Afta doin so many things fr others, they value it afta u stop doin it..!! and some dn value it even after u stop doin it..!!"
i rcvd lotsa comments n suggestions on dis..sm ppl said ki fal ki asha mat karo n all...mahabharat ke dialogues n i diagree wid it completely...!!

temme whoever says dis, 'doesn't expect nything whtvr they do..??'.. is it so..???
we expect the fruits from all our dids like whn u study u always expect good marks...whn u give surprises to ur frnds u always expect that they wuld love it.. n vil thank u for tat..!!

Even at the time of planting tree also, we expect that it shud give us the oxygen n fruits as it grows up..??? ryt..???
do u ever plant a tree purposely whis is of no use..???
n nw temme whn othrs neither give value nor acknowledge fr the things u r doing..do u rele stop doin it..??
n whn u stop doin it... n ppl start missing it...do u again start wid d same stuff again..?? or do u follow d proverb.."JASHAS TASE..??"
obviously we expect the things from our closed once only...so when they dint satisfy r expectations, we get hurt easily...!! ryt..???

I knw mah thots r bit confusing.. sm ppl willfeel it a lot more confusing n wiered...but these status msg ka topic n expectations ka topic were so much interrelated wid each other...!!

those all were mah thots..but i'll need ur views guyz...so go ahead, pen down ur views on these 2 topics.. n give comments...
so..bye bye till d next post...!!
cya tc...!!

Lots of hardwork,,,, n lotsa hopes....

here cums another post in mah blog... now u will think why i am writting blog in these busy days f exams... bt there is such a reason...
I juzz wanna share mah experiences with you guyz about mah photography experiences i had during d preparations for Imagine Cup Competition..
Yess, overall it waz a gr8 fun... n i earned a lot of things through it...
basically there waz no idea i had that i will participate in photography competition.. but mah team member and senior MSP..(Microsoft Student Partner) Dhaval Ghelashah insist me to participate (rather say inspired me..lolzz) but somehow i agreed wid him.. n finally we decided d topic.. SLUM KIDS.. poverty, Illiteracy, n blah blah...
actually.. v have to select a topic based on the millenium goals of UN.. and fortunately at the same time i waz makin a short muvi for my college competition related to same topic...whoo..tats it...our work gets reduced a lot with dis... We juzz picked some nice snaps from it... tagged all those snaps... made a story n submitted...

some days passed after this...and I had forgotten that i have participated in such competition..
but juzz result of it woke me up again.. n yess.. It's the news that we had cleared the first round..
which waz totally unexpected for us (atleast for me...) . But then we pulled up d socks..n started preparing for the next round.. as we had very less days in hand n vivas were on board...
once even we cancelled d plan to participate in 2 nd round...

but juzz a 5 days before the deadline of round 2.. we both decided to go for it..!!
and tat waz d great experience i had while clicking the snaps...To manage those slum kids n keep the control on themm waz very tedious task...create the scene n take clicks..i meant to say that... juzz guide those kids and doctors (Duplicate docs... Mah dad n Uncle,... lolzzz) waz a gr8 thing.. i had never thought that i will do all these things during mah engineering... lolzz..

at the time i felt..yeah.. Hats off to all photographers like Kasbekar n all... they r doin a gr8 work..it's rele not nyone's cup of tea to click d snaps n convey d story from it...convey the emotions from it...Things look good but these photographers captures it makes those look better..or sumtyms best also...!!

Nywyz i had a gr8 experience while clicking these pics..n Dhaval made mah work lot more easier as he waz on the editior's chair.. He did all the editing n made catlogue...

Now after this lots of hardwork by me n Dhaval, I am hoping to clear the 2nd round too.. n advance to next round.. that it WorldWide Finals...Juzz keeping mah fingrs crossed for it..

What Next..??

20th March, 2009
3:00 PM,
At College Garden....

It waz Saaree n Tie day in college...spent the whole day in fun and timepass...We the group of 15 people had a lunch in the restaurent "The Twins"..Lots of snaps n videos were taken...The day waz an undeclared freedom for us from lectures and practicals...Around 3 in d noon we all came back to the college n were relaxing in the collge garden..Some guyz were busy in pulling legs of one another..some were juzz taking rest...As always gals were chit-chatting between themselves..Overall it waz a great day till then...


around 5:00 PM,
Still at the Same Place

Silent waz in the air..everyone waz quite bored..but no one wanted 2 lev the place..suddenly one voice came out.."Lets play DumSheras..!!"Yess..with that one everyone charged up once again...again the photoshoot n vide shooting started again...Silent waz broken with noise of all d people trying to recognize the movie one waz trying to act...


Around 6:15 PM,
Still in the college..

It waz the time to leve the college n going back home..some were willing to go home but some were not..!!! We were sitting idle..totally idle..and actually doing nothing...!!!!We were juzz watching faces of each others n suddenly the same thot struck in mah n aditi's mind..!!(Aditi : Mah group member)n tat waz "What next..??" I am sure this question had been arose in many of yours mind well before..!!!

It is one more year to get passed from college..but still the same thought came into mah mind much early..I know this is the time to enjoy the college life instead of thinking abt what next..??now dis "what next" is not abt the job or service or higher education after B.E. this waz about...college, college friends, assignments, journals, submissions, n more over FRIENDS...After getting passed out from college, obviously friendships not gonna affect.. but then everyday's schedule won't be like 2day...No waiting for frnds at the bridge...No tiffins and no mobile masti during d lectures..No B'day Treats and no B'Day bombs..No pranks..There won't be assignments and journals to copy, no opportunity for group studies..No deadlines for submissions..no vivas...and many more thing...there's a long lists of 'NO's..then what next...????

Yess i waz thinking abt dis for a long time..scrapped it out on dis blog n left thinking...now m again getting ready to enjoy mah remaining one year or almost one n half year wid frnds, assignments, vivas n ultimately with MUMBAI UNIVERSITY exams...!!!chalo m signing off now...Have to go to complete one more assignment before it's DEADLINE...!!
Have a comment on the topic..!!!

MOMENTS

Hello Everyone,

I got some nice responses for the last post n got wishes for next venture so I am daring again to write a new post..

Dunno what I am goin to write dis tym, actually it's not about particular topic, juzz trying to write randomly what I thynk about mah frnds, abt thr views , thoughts...

My one of the closest frnds says that "My priorities in lyf are different" .. & I guess that he is nt liking it or he is nt agree wid me that m givin preferences to other things which might be not tat much important..!!

I won't say that he is wrong coz it's his personal thinking, bt I think in another way..!! Some of mah frnds thinks a lot about taking any particular decision and get confused.. I know that sumtyms v cn't take decision so quickly..

but I would lyk to suggest that wherever possible, juss dun thynk much, take a quick decision and enjoy the Present 'MOMENT'.. dun think about it's future affects..

You will have sufficient time to thynk about it later on, but "moments once u missed is not gonna cum back again..!!"

There are some moments rather say situations or incidents thar unforgottable through the lyf. Those memories might be good or bad but are important. Because when u memorise such things in the future when u r bugged due to work and other responsibilities,

these memories will surely make u laugh for some tym. Those moments will surely refresh your mind .

Obviously, memories are good then u will be refreshed, but what if the memories are badd..??? then i'll suggest juzz try to look at it positively, rather i'll say, smile on such things and say "How mad I waz that tym..!!" Yesss, it's tough but m sure that if u try it then u will be able to find out the hapiness in such badd memories of ur past.!!

But wht abt the people who don't have such remarkable moments to remember..?? Now u will say m talkin confusing.. but i Have seen many people who were tryin hard to remeber such things like, 'When the last time I waz hanging arnd wid mah friends..?' or say 'When last time i Visited amusement park or saw movie wid my frnds or family..??'

so it's better with good or bad memories of your past but you will be having something to remember and you will satisfied with thinking that yess.. u enjoyed that moment..!!

(In response to mah frnd's post) Consider a situation where you have to choose one of the option from family and frnds, then i'll prefer according that situation.. But some mah frnds take the wrong meaning of this...

they say that mah priorities are wrong or m givin more importance to frnds than family.. but it's nt lyk that.. I am not giving preference or more importance to ny particular thing.. but at that moment only one thought is in my mind is that "I want to enjoy this preent moment, so I am doing it."

Because "While Going into the future, I want to take some good and bad moments also of my past life to make my present more interesting n happier"

Regards,

Sanket

Where 'HE' went wrong...??

Guys, First of thanx for visiting my blog... Yesss,, Your thoughts are correct after reading title.

I am going to write something non-technical for the first time in mah life..

I am not writer or like that.. so i dunno hw to start the topic..!! 

but lets start, It's juss about one of mah friend who is facing one of the worst conditions in life wid his frnds..

As He said there are lot of conflicts goin on with his one of the best frnd.. bt HE is really nt able to resolve those yet..

n yess, it's surely affecting his relations with other frnds too..!! 

As i listen him, I am really nt getting "Where HE went wrong...??"

whether HE was wrong, or the TIME was wrong...??

I would like you to ask some questions to yourself

Does frndship has ny limit ??

Some of mah frnds say that "When you try to pretend in front of you...... Then it's the end of friendship.."

Does really 'TRUE' frndship Ends ever ??

Sometimes the situation cums when every human being may feel like alone.. don't 'HE' have rights too keep some things in mind..

Does 'HE' do anything wrong by nt saying the things goin on in his mind by nt saying to his frnd..

I just hope that the frndship relations between 'HE' n his 'frnd' may get better, and all the best fr 'HIS' future...

I need a comment on this as this is my first non-technical article.. I never thought of that i'll write something like this... 

please feel free to comment...

Regards,

Sanket